F.R.I.E.N.D.S (could this BE more true?!)

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It takes a lot to write this. Of all that I've taken a bizarre of, this is something very crucial to pen down.

Here's one blog that shows upshifts with 2 viewpoints.

Scrolling through social media, I went beyond a good quote that said "Having two/three devoted friends with whom you've so many mutual things to share is so much better than having a bunch whilst striving to find a theme to chat about". Like, have you ever felt this? I have for certain.

Straight from my innocence, I've invariably yearned for a bunch of friends to touch upon it as a squad with comfort. But every sole time, it has been an utter failure and it took me 20years to understand why it was and that I was so much into being a wallflower. Yes, always good to have a small orbit that keeps diminishing as you grow old, but those are the most expensive deep friends who can indeed stand by you through all your heart-rending moments.

A place edge where a mini troop of people who can comprehend your presence and appreciate your opinions is the right place you need to be in. And that's when a voice whispers inside you saying, they are the ones who would for sure come along for what the future has assigned for you.

This is not something modern, but if you can spot the ones that are genuinely happy with your upward journey, and also prioritize you during the most difficult time, clench to them. Further, if you do not stammer to share your good news and do not reduce your excitement level to even 1%, that’s the one.

And as a matter of course, when it's diminished, factors like possessiveness and paradoxes play a role in all mature trust talks. And that's this weakest part of the friendship which has got the purest connection with them if you know what I mean. If you're past that level of your friendship, good luck with it.

My life has been all about " No primacy, No opinion" and would want to answer my people for all the prosperity they've provided me with. Now, it's time for you to think and appreciate yours. Friendships are for even the afterlife, don't lose your expensive ones for the vaster probabilities that toss low.

Fun part yet speaks the truth:
Cannot promise a Joey to your Chandler, but there's definitely a Ross out there for your phoebe.


Comments

  1. Iyshu BaskiMay 17, 2022 at 5:40 AM

    Keep going my girl ❤🤩

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  2. AthiyokeeMay 17, 2022 at 5:57 AM

    First of all congrats ragas for ur efforts to describe the theme friendship because it is the most precious one in life, As usual ur writing brings me to virtual world to imagine ur situations as said in this, keep surprising us with ur writings.

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  3. Nisthu💜May 17, 2022 at 6:02 AM

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  4. SahityaMay 17, 2022 at 9:56 PM

    Beautifully told.. And that ending line got me💜✨

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  5. TLSBalajiMay 19, 2022 at 10:01 PM

    Excellent... Ornamental.. Bombastic..lovely....Way forward

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  6. Goks_URMay 25, 2022 at 10:26 AM

    Friendship is a magical relationship in everyone's life and the way you described was an another magical one✨keep going 💥💕

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