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Solitariness- into effecting!

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Hello people. It's so pronounced I have something very crucial to be blogged about.   A few days fall very heavily, this day is one among those which is possibly why I'm here with you all. So, it's a month of me being self-dependent with all my chores, and stresses. One cliched message coming into being on my part-> "Home is where your happiness lies". Frankly, I'm one among those who cuddle and shadow my immediate ones for a normal day to pass on. Never did I imagine having to spend an independent life for a span of days miles away/overseas from them. Fevers, monthly stresses both physical and mental I go through had all to be handled by myself, couldn't be more proud that merely 5% of these days went with intense and intolerant missings, rest with insights. So hard to get on to the fact, that I dare to cope and live a solo life yet the aches for being with family and spending time together is mandatory. Journey unscrewed potentials in me whilst coming...

11.59pm and Wild Realisations!

My dad back then asked me "How much sense do you think exact 12' o clock wish makes?" and still asks. Here's me growing up with this ironically answerable uncertainty. I'm wildly sincere to know how from twiddling the thumbs the day before the birthday and glancing at the raven screen of the phone until 11.59 knowing the subsequent minute you're gonna get overflows of messages and rings from people you foreknow to sleeping at 11 shows your GROWTH. With not fancying 12' o clock wishes or social media flood now, you feel so good and convinced on figuring out the fact you're adulting and don't sigh for those little things that indeed you thought will put your day together. Now, uncertainty answered with maturity. Perhaps, this birthday is the one I was least keen about with expectations, not sure if that is why it went around out to be very delicate! Once you know it's just YOU who's fetching on the new track, it's all about you making you...

Dynamizing the spectrum!

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How well do you know about these two traits? INTROVERT AND EXTROVERT And do people exist in two extremes of that scale? We have never put an effort into becoming cognizant of what these two words mean and putting them in use only for the reason of being influenced by social media. We all must have drawn to one misconception that being active in social media is at one spectrum being an extrovert and not being active-> into the introvert scale, which just serves 10% right, not the totality. That "WE" doesn't exclude me, henceforth I'm here after squaring up to the fact. We must know that every particular being has both sides of these two extreme traits, with one ruling more than the other, all on proclivity. The psyches of human souls merely need a contoured idiosyncratic feature for indeed creating an identity for the people around us. Holding our uniqueness, the way of perceiving, judging, lifestyle, and energy are all put together, which is a mini complex world yo...

Time to anaesthetise your weak nerves off stage.

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Here's the one from the "Once in a while" roll. Have you ever felt like never being able to pitch in and do a part to set forth your talents? If you have, trust me you're not alone. For my part, dance and speaking->things I set a great store by, still working here to oversee why I've never stood to fetch these on the show to people and why I've been receding from the view. Ages since this doubt, yet that question is taking a dot now. Considering three significant factors of hesitance. 1) Fear of disappointment 2) Lack of self-confidence 3) Fear of being judged 1 & 2: can only be overcome when you start becoming comfortable with doing mediocre stuff or things you think are mediocre and things you think you're not promising at never knowing what ranks it can make you catch up with. Never miss a chance to take on things else you’ll get underway regretting them later. Okay, now one quick walkathon? I recently got a window opened to seize up the mic n s...

Why different perspectives aren't normalised?

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Recess-ness is incredibly crucial to get an ultimate occurrence and proficiency out of a situation. And that's the intention that may be why I've earned the lengthiest recess possible from my blogs.  I lately came across a film, that symbolised the fact that friends of the opposite gender can only be romantically involved. How logical it can be? Why friends can't be just friends? I've never fancied Rom-ione from HP and Mon-dler from F.R.I.E.N.D.S big time though. I just can't keep racking my brain about this anymore. There are harmonious soulmates, food soulmates out there ( Counting on the fact that a soulmate is the one you share your curiosities with). Romantic soulmates s just one among many, and hence not all connections between a girl and boy are charming. They can kick around, click snapshots, and in truth, possessiveness and care can tease apart but why is this glimpsed with a sick mentality? Of course, there are numerous beautiful epitomes of Best friend co...

F.R.I.E.N.D.S (could this BE more true?!)

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It takes a lot to write this. Of all that I've taken a bizarre of, this is something very crucial to pen down. Here's one blog that shows upshifts with 2 viewpoints. Scrolling through social media, I went beyond a good quote that said "Having two/three devoted friends with whom you've so many mutual things to share is so much better than having a bunch whilst striving to find a theme to chat about". Like, have you ever felt this? I have for certain. Straight from my innocence, I've invariably yearned for a bunch of friends to touch upon it as a squad with comfort. But every sole time, it has been an utter failure and it took me 20years to understand why it was and that I was so much into being a wallflower. Yes, always good to have a small orbit that keeps diminishing as you grow old, but those are the most expensive deep friends who can indeed stand by you through all your heart-rending moments. A place edge where a mini troop of people who can comprehend you...

Dramatic Adventurer's Gate: Open?

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I know it's been more than a while because nothing pricked my brain off to write about until these two beautiful journeys I've been through.   Here's me glimpsing out the absolutely beautiful journeys of mine.  Roadscape-ing! We all ascertain about the phrase that says the travel is more beautiful than the port of call which can make almost all of us approve of it. For those who are allergic to traveling, don't travel along with us for a few minutes since I don't want to make you more sensitized with the narration. Bus journeys cross swords to my car's, nevertheless the latter wins it up. Do you guess anything else further than a serene climate along with headphones(+a window seat) that can hit off during travels? But if it's common in your case, you need to go on turns for your favorite ones.  Geez, let's stop by for a tea/coffee marking that as my most-liked portion. Hill stations they are. Climbing up the hills, especially the bell-pin bends can scare...